“Why Your Child Stops Connecting to Shul” is a video from Rav Shlomo Katz, published on May 10, 2026 and available to watch on VideoVinkel. The total runtime is 55:01. It has been viewed 423 times so far. Press play above to stream the full video right here, or open the original on YouTube.
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What happens when a child goes to shul… but never develops a taste for tefillah?
In this deeply honest episode of Know Your Children, Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David explore the tension every parent feels between obligation and connection. Is “good chinuch” just getting children to sit quietly in shul — or helping them discover something that genuinely touches their soul?
Through the lens of chush ha’ta’am — a child’s inner sense of taste and emotional connection — this shiur opens up difficult but essential questions about parenting, authenticity, fear, and what children actually experience when they walk into a beit knesset.
Along the way, Rav Shlomo speaks about compliments, expectations, honesty in religious life, the emotional memory of shul, and why the question “How was davening?” may not be enough.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Sponsorship and Dedication for the Shiur
01:01 Humility Needed in Parenting Approaches
02:46 Introducing Chush HaTa’am Concept in Parenting
04:26 Taking Children to Shul: The Routine
05:35 Assessing the Child’s Reaction After Shul
08:30 When Kids Can Read Yet Miss the Meaning
10:48 Probing the Real Source of Shul Enjoyment
21:18 Role of Compliments in Encouraging Shul Attendance
23:24 Why Kids Need a Taste for Prayer
24:50 Balancing Obligations and Personal Experience
26:20 Adults Also Struggle with Shul Attendance
30:25 Modeling Joy in Shul for Kids
35:04 Unrealistic Expectations for Young Children
40:26 Honesty About Personal Shul Struggles
43:51 Fear vs. Authentic Parenting in Religion
45:10 When Answers Aren’t Satisfying
46:23 Isidor Rabi’s Deep Question to Children
47:35 Creating Spaces for Children’s Insight
49:37 Authenticity and Consistency Across Life
51:08 Modern Orthodoxy Identity Split
52:30 Family Tradition of Sitting Together
54:00 Changing Seats After Mourning
55:16 Rashi’s Query on Recounting Names
“Why Your Child Stops Connecting to Shul” was uploaded by Rav Shlomo Katz on May 10, 2026. You can browse more uploads from Rav Shlomo Katz on VideoVinkel.
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The total runtime is 55:01.
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