“How Am I Supposed to Know How to Truly Parent? | Know Your Children (17)” is a video from Rav Shlomo Katz, published on February 22, 2026 and available to watch on VideoVinkel. The total runtime is 54:32. It has been viewed 141 times so far. Press play above to stream the full video right here, or open the original on YouTube.
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Parenting can feel like you’re expected to know how to do something you’ve never done before — and then do it differently for each child.
In this week’s Know Your Children, Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David go deeper into a core yesod: investing in a child’s emotional development isn’t a “nice extra” — it’s essential. We talk about the pressure parents feel, the fear of “getting it wrong,” and why failure is often the only real way we learn (“ein habayshan lamed / אין הביישן למד”).
From there, we move into practical, real-life tools: upgrading the quality of conversations as kids get older, creating daily emotional check-ins, and integrating a child’s emotional world into normal home life (not only reacting when something goes wrong).
Along the way: a powerful “good questions” chinuch story, humility in parenting, and a big reminder that self-care and emotional health in the parent is often a prerequisite to building it in the child.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Opening and Sponsorship Acknowledgments
01:29 Emotional Development Is a Must
03:52 Physical Growth vs Emotional Needs
05:52 Parents’ Self-Criticism and Growth
08:51 Learning Through Failure (Ein Habayshan Lamed)
10:38 Humility in Parenting
11:44 Divine Intent in Parenting
13:10 Practical Steps for Emotional Investment
18:05 Age-Specific Emotional Strategies
22:51 Recording Device Test for Family Talk
25:35 Daily Parent-Child Check-In: “How Was Your Day?”
26:38 The “Good Questions” Lesson from Isadore Rabi
28:39 Integrating a Child’s Emotional World into Daily Life
31:14 Limits of the Chinuch Obligation After Bar/Bat Mitzvah
35:15 Hebrew Mistake Story: Accordion vs. Playing
37:36 Making Emotional Talk a Regular Part of Home Life
43:03 Parent Self-Care as Prerequisite for Child’s Emotional Health
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