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If you’ve ever paid attention to the tefillah on Shabbos, you may have noticed something unusual.
On Friday night we say “Vayanuchu Vah.”
On Shabbos morning it becomes “Vayanuchu Vo.”
And by Mincha, it changes again to “Vayanuchu Vom.”
Why does Shabbos change?
In this week’s Turn Friday Into Erev Shabbos, Rabbi Efrem Goldberg shares a profound insight from Rav Dessler that unlocks a completely new way to understand Shabbos — and how to experience it.
Shabbos is not just a day.
Shabbos is a relationship.
On Friday night, Shabbos receives from us.
All the preparation, the cooking, the anticipation, the kavod — we are giving to Shabbos. That’s Vah.
On Shabbos day, everything flips.
Now Shabbos gives to us — serenity, clarity, kedusha, connection. That’s Vo.
And by the time we reach Shabbos Mincha — the holiest moment of the week — something incredible happens:
We are giving to each other. That’s Vom.
First we make Shabbos.
Then Shabbos makes us.
And finally — we become one.
This Erev Shabbos, don’t just arrive.
Invest. Give. Prepare.
Because the more you give to Shabbos —
the more Shabbos gives back to you.
About this video
“The Hidden Stages of Shabbos | Turn Friday into Erev Shabbos #253” is a video from Rabbi Efrem Goldberg, published on March 20, 2026 and available to watch on VideoVinkel. The total runtime is 5:03. It has been viewed 514 times so far. Press play above to stream the full video right here, or open the original on YouTube.
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