The Fonz’s Prayer Was More Jewish Than You Think

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My course is starting next week! https://SoulWords.org/how *The Fonz almost said the perfect prayer.* In a famous scene from *Happy Days,* the character *Arthur Fonzarelli* is asked to say grace at the Cunningham dinner table. Actor *Henry Winkler* later explained that the line was originally supposed to be long and formal. But he felt that from the Fonz’s point of view, prayer should be simple. So he looked up and said: *“Hey God… whoa.”* The showrunner objected and insisted that it was inappropriate, and after an argument that went on for an hour the compromise in the episode became: *“Hey God… thanks.”* Henry Winkler later wrote in his memoir *Being Henry: The Fonz… and Beyond* that the moment still gnaws at him. And in a strange way, his original instinct was very Jewish. There is a famous Hasidic story about *the Baal Shem Tov.* During the intense *Neila prayer* at the end of *Yom Kippur,* the Baal Shem Tov and his students were praying to annul a terrible decree against a Jewish community. The congregation cried and recited the beautiful prayers of the *Machzor,* but nothing seemed to work. Then suddenly a simple young man who didn’t know Hebrew and couldn’t read the prayers stood up and cried out the only sound he knew: *“Kukuriku!”* — like a rooster crowing. People thought he was making a mockery of the service, but afterward the Baal Shem Tov explained that this simple cry of sincerity pierced the heavens and annulled the decree. Because the essence of prayer is not eloquence. The essence of prayer is sincerity. That idea is also reflected in the first prayer a Jew says every morning: *Modeh Ani,* a simple one-line expression of gratitude for life itself. Sometimes the deepest prayer is not a paragraph. Sometimes it’s just the pure expression of the soul. Maybe that’s why the Fonz looking up and saying: *“Hey God… whoa.”* would have been perfect. Video Chapters 00:00:00 - Introduction: Prayer and The Fonz 00:00:31 - Henry Winkler’s story about the "Grace" scene 00:01:54 - The origin of the Fonz's "Whoa!" catchphrase 00:02:37 - The actual clip from Happy Days: "Hey God, thanks" 00:03:15 - Investigating the discrepancy in the story 00:04:11 - Details from Henry Winkler's memoir: Being Henry 00:05:41 - The compromise with the showrunner 00:06:50 - Why "Whoa!" was a better character choice 00:07:35 - Why the "Whoa!" prayer is deeply Jewish 00:07:52 - The Baal Shem Tov and the story of the simple villager 00:11:52 - The "Kukuriku" prayer that pierced the heavens 00:14:53 - The punchline: Sincerity vs. Eloquence in prayer 00:17:09 - Connecting the Fonz to daily Jewish practice 00:17:25 - Modeh Ani: The first prayer of the day 00:19:01 - Why we say Modeh Ani before washing hands 00:21:15 - Essential gratitude vs. conditional gratitude 00:23:11 - Final thoughts: A message for Henry Winkler #JewishWisdom #ChassidicStories #Prayer #BaalShemTov #HenryWinkler --- *For more classes from Rabbi Shais Taub:* 🌐 *Website:* https://www.soulwords.org/ *Follow Rabbi Shais Taub:* 📸 *Instagram:* https://www.instagram.com/rabbi_shais_taub 🎥 *TikTok:* https://www.tiktok.com/@rabbi_shais_taub 🐦 *X (Twitter):* https://www.x.com/ShaisTaub 📘 *Facebook:* https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61573478244968 💼 *LinkedIn:* https://www.linkedin.com/in/shais-taub-81a95466/ 🎧 *Listen to the SoulWords Podcast:* 🎵 *Spotify:* https://open.spotify.com/show/51E7XHWFDbZCGJQz7CoAZP 🍏 *Apple Podcasts:* https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulwords-full-library/id1450892501 *Support Our Work:* 💳 *Donate:* https://www.soulwords.org/donate/ 💰 *PayPal:* https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/soulwordspayments 💵 *CashApp:* https://cash.app/$soulwords 🪙 *Venmo:* https://venmo.com/u/soulwords *About SoulWords:* SoulWords is a virtual community hosted by Rabbi Shais Taub, where people come together to explore the spiritual insights of Torah and discover their unique purpose. This platform is here to facilitate your spiritual growth by sharing the mystical teachings of Judaism in contemporary language—making deep wisdom accessible and relevant to your life.