When my father (olav haShalom) was saying Kaddish for his own father, he once told me something very sincere. He said he felt a little disappointed with the Kaddish – the memorial prayer for the dead. He said, “It doesn’t say anything about the person who passed away. It doesn’t describe their life, their goodness, their uniqueness. It just says Yisgadal v’Yiskadash Shemei Rabbah — may Hashem’s Name be magnified and sanctified! Why doesn't it mention the person who passed away?”
