Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky on Let’s get real with Coach Menachem, Sunday December 28.2025 # 255
The Job Description of a Husband
Knowing Your Role So You Can Master It

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What is the real job description of a husband?

Beyond providing, fixing, or “doing everything right,” many husbands — and wives — feel confused, disconnected, or frustrated by what marriage actually requires emotionally.

In this talk, Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky explores the role of the husband through a Jewish psychological lens, drawing on attachment, emotional safety, and Torah values to clarify what truly creates connection and trust in marriage.

We explore questions many couples quietly struggle with:

Why does it sometimes feel like no matter how much a husband does, it’s still not enough?

What does emotional availability actually look like in marriage?

Why do some husbands shut down during tension — and what’s really happening beneath the surface?

How can strength and emotional presence coexist?

This conversation is not about blame or perfection — it’s about understanding, safety, and presence.

If you’re married, engaged, or thinking about marriage, this talk offers clarity, language, and a healthier framework for connection in the Jewish home.
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